My description is : I’m 18, and I often have different fantasies in my head not some unrealistic ones, but rather about feelings and atmosphere. Sometimes I imagine just walking around the city at night with someone close to me. Summer, warm air, almost no one around, and we talk about everything - from stupid things to something very personal. And at some point it becomes clear that there is something more between us than just a conversation.
I like: It’s very nice when a person respects boundaries he doesn’t bother with questions if I’m not ready to answer, he doesn’t put pressure and doesn’t get offended by this. And, probably, the most important thing is a feeling of lightness. When after communication you don’t feel tired or tense, but on the contrary, you feel somehow warmer.
I dislike: Intrusiveness irritates me. When a person doesn’t feel that you need space and continues to write, call, demand attention. And also when they don’t respect other people’s opinions. It’s okay to disagree, it’s okay to argue, but to devalue or laugh at other people’s thoughts is not.
I guess I just want people to be around with whom I can be myself and not play any role. This turns out to be rare.
